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WHY MEN DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED ANYMORE
Why is it that men don't want to get married anymore? Ok, not ALL men, but 51% don't or at least they are waiting later in life. A lot of stuff has built up to this, it's not just one thing and not all-of-a-sudden. This article is probably contraversial in that everyone is going to have a different opinion, especially women. Since I'm a man, (and this is MY blog), I'll give my opinion. Feel free to comment toward the bottom of the page and I'll add it to the bottom for a different perspective.
Watch this video below (stop at 6:30 - there's an ad at the end) to find out a little more about why.
So there are a variety of reasons, each man will have a different one, but I think the main one is the breaking down of the family unit by society and government. Many men also feel like, "Why get married, it's just going to end up in divorce anyway". Well men, not if you TRY at it! I've been married to the same great woman for 21 years. I can't imagine life without her. We're like 2 pieces of a puzzle consisting of 2 pieces. We fit and we go together.
I see the men on the TV reality show, "Vanderpump Rules" (Yeah, one of my vices is reality shows). They almost vomit when thinking about marriage to their girlfriends they claim to "love". Tom Schwartz finally asked Katie to marry him after much childish ado. He looked like a punk to me. Man up and marry her! Some of the younger-than-me men I know don't want marriage either, like it's something sickening. If you love a woman, why not commit to her? Some kind of disconnect has happened in the last 30 years. "Commitment issues" actually on both sides, for men AND women. I also see women who can't even imagine getting or being married, because like men, it would mean being "stuck" to the same person the rest of your life. It almost sounds to me like they are incapable of real love, just self love.
It also comes off as "self love" or selfishness. You don't want to commit to someone so you can be free to roam around. It's sad really. I'd like to ask them how many STD's they've accumulated up til now. Anything you can't get rid of? There are so many now.
Any man reading this, I have something to say. Take a deep down look into yourself...are you really "too good for 1 woman"? Are you REALLY all that? Do you want to die alone? No one to take care of you when you're too sick to get up and can't earn an income? You're "girlfriend" will probably leave the minute you look like an old loser and move on to fresher prospects. You want to find someone, a "forever" someone that you can share the ups and downs with. Give her your heart as she gives hers. That's the true worthiness of marriage. You can really, really trust that this person will go through whatever life throws at you and you're in it 'together'.
There's no feeling like it in the world (other than the love of God/Jesus) that you can trust this person, and they have your back. It must be truly lonely and dark inside the people who don't feel they can love someone enough to marry them. Despare and darkness. I'm sure someone will write in that they are great without marriage and doing just fine. I really, really doubt it. It's the lies that you tell yourself to cover up the blackness. It works for awhile.
If you hadn't noticed, we were made male and female for a reason. I guess we couldv'e been made asexual, but that'd be gross! No, we were made to "fit" like 2 pieces of a puzzle and to stick together for life, come what may. Work on the love that you're able to share and don't keep it all to yourself. You're a smaller person without sharing total love and your life with another.
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